Diplomacy:  The art of saying "nice doggie" until you can find a rock.  ~Wynn Catlin
Diplomacy is the art of letting someone else have your way.  ~Daniele Vare
A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman's birthday but never remembers her age.  ~Robert Frost
Diplomat:  A person who can tell you to go to hell in such a way that you actually look forward to the trip.  ~Caskie Stinett, Out of the Red, 1960
Diplomats are useful only in fair weather.  As soon as it rains they drown in every drop.  ~Charles de Gaulle
Diplomacy is to do and say
The nastiest thing in the nicest way.
~Bisaac Goldberg
When a diplomat says yes he means perhaps; when he says perhaps he means no; when he says no he is no diplomat.  ~Author Unknown
A diplomat's life is made up of three ingredients:  Protocol, Geritol, and alcohol.  ~Adlai E. Stevenson
A Foreign Secretary is forever poised between the cliché and the indiscretion.  ~Harold MacMillan
An ambassador is an honest man sent to lie abroad for the commonwealth.  ~Henry Wotton, Reliquiæ Wottonianæ
Diplomacy:  The business of handling a porcupine without disturbing the quills.  ~Author Unknown
I must acknowledge, once and for all, that the purpose of diplomacy is to prolong a crisis.  ~Star Trek, Mr. Spock
  
 "Charm" - which means the power to effect work without employing brute force - is indispensable to women.  Charm is a woman's strength just as strength is a man's charm.  ~Havelock Ellis
Charm is... a way of getting the answer yes without having asked any clear question.  ~Albert Camus, The Fall, 1956
Modesty is the gentle art of enhancing your charm by pretending not to be aware of it.  ~Oliver Herford
Charm is the quality in others that makes us more satisfied with ourselves.  ~Henri Frédéric Amiel
All charming people have something to conceal, usually their total dependence on the appreciation of others.  ~Cyril Connolly, Enemies of Promise
Charming people live up to the very edge of their charm, and behave as outrageously as the world lets them.  ~Logan Pearsall Smith
It's a sort of bloom on a woman.  If you have it, you don't need to have anything else; and if you don't have it, it doesn't much matter what else you have.  ~James Matthew Barrie, What Every Woman Knows, about charm
There is a sort of charm in ugliness, if the person has some redeeming qualities and is only ugly enough.  ~Josh Billings
It is absurd to divide people into good and bad.  People are either charming or tedious.  ~Oscar Wilde
Charm is a glow within a woman that casts a most becoming light on others.  ~John Mason Brown
There is no personal charm so great as the charm of a cheerful temperament.  ~Henry Van Dyke
Forbidden things have a secret charm.  ~Publius Cornelius Tacitus
There's a difference between beauty and charm.  A beautiful woman is one I notice.  A charming woman is one who notices me.  ~John Erskine   

